I was perusing VA again because I never actually work at work around lunch time (and anyhow we are about to get sent home as the power is going to go off…fuckin storm) and was reading one of her more recent posts about “loving yourself” and such jargon.
indulge yourself Here:

THANK. GOD. Read it and you will understand my large amounts of joy and rapture.

SOMEONE FOR ONCE AGREES WITH ME ON THIS SUBJECT! Lord, everyone always used to tell me: “you need to love yourself, Liv! You can’t love someone until you know how to love yourself, it doesn’t work”.  I always thought bull fucking shit.  I can love better than most of those fucking balloon headed therapists.

why?

Because I will put EVERYONE before myself.  I will sacrifice almost anything for the ones I love.  Sure sometimes it can borderline idiotic how MUCH I will sacrifice but hey. 

I hate these idiot self help books.  My boyfriend (bless his heart) tried to get me to read some, but really all it did was infuriate me.  They were wrong and I knew it, because nothing made sense, it went againt everything I stood for and believed in.  Screw that shit, now that I know I’m not THAT crazy, I am sticking with what I know and fuck everyone else who says otherwise.

Ill stab you in the eye.